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天老大：

可以给我透口气吗？
不是我不坚强，而是我累了。。

请给我一点休息的时间。。=)

-Howe-

Gathering Trip @ PD 13 - 14 June 2009

After our graduation trip to Pulau Redang in June 2008, it's been a year that all of us didn't have a trip together. Besides, due to everyone is busy with their career, so most of us hardly even have the chance to meet up. Therefore, in order to gather and strengthen our friendship, we decided to held a gathering trip in the month of June.

After a few suggestions, finally we decided to put at Port Dickson as it is a center point for all of our friends from Malacca, KL, Seremban and Singapore to meet up. The place that we stayed and attendees are as below:

Place: Pearl Villa (double-terrace house)
Date: 13th - 14th June 2009 (2D1N)
Attendees: Caryne, Carmen, Alicia, Foong Ying, Chui Ling, Ping Nee, Csc, Hui Shan, Jia Qian, Ah Tai, Edmond, Alan, Howe, Liang Hoe, Yang, Darren, Jia Hong, Ah Huat

Once everything had been settled down, most of them immediately get their clothes changed and can't wait to go to the beach for banana boat,jetski and donut. Whereas, Carmen, Hoe and I were preparing for the BBQ for our dinner session.

Our friend, Ping Nee injured few weeks ago before the PD trip, so she couldn't join us for BBQ. Thus, we steamed fish for her as dinner. Although it didn't look nice, but she did appreciate it very much.

After the BBQ, it's the birthday celebration for June and early of July's babies (Yang, Darren, Alicia, Csc, Ping Nee).


Birthday present giving session started after blowing the cake. Ping Nee, Alicia & Csc's presents are sponsored by Yang (brought to you by the main sponsor - Watson), whereas, Yang's present was sincerely prepared by Ping Nee, Foong Ying & Chui Ling.



On the next day, after we checked-out, we went to a famous restaurant in Seremban to have our lunch. There was a popular and delicious food called The King of Bread, and it's really yummy yummy~!

That's not the end of our trip...Our next round was sing K at KL. Due to most of us have to work on the next day, so around 9sth we had to go back and have a good rest.


Although we were very tired, but everyone enjoyed the trip. So looking forward to our next trip ya!

Cheerz!

狼朋友的思想 - Pahang Yang

an interesting article i found online. enjoy.

赌
我站在这头
金钱站在那头
我说
开始吧！
金钱一脸奸笑：
你能赢了我，我就是你的了！

我站在这头
美女站在那头
我沉默。。。
美女一脸娇笑：
你能赢了金钱，我就是你的了！


gric

兴趣 - Pahang Yang

兴趣
是人的动力，
是人的理想与奋斗精神，
是你我宏愿的踏基石。

为兴趣与理想奋斗，
是现代人一个惯用的词句，
很多时候，
人的潜意思会融合这两个元素，
为人的精神与体力提供一份源源不绝的力量,
为达成目标，
不畏艰巨，
不嫌付出，
不求回报。

曾经的我，
就是这样的例子，
从未求任何回报，
只懂付出，
只懂牺牲，
然而回报的只是那几句赞赏，
是不是所有人都只期待他们的付出换来那几句赞赏？

双子座的我，
肯定不是，
很多人曾经有某某特定的偶像，
某某要作为自己终生学习的目标任务，
我也是凡人，
我也有这个终生目标，
他不是什么非常出名人物，
不是什么名留青史的英雄，
他的名字是...王剪。

王剪
一个维护着秦朝数十年的将军，
他的智慧是长远的，
很多人物往往是英年早逝，
但王剪是当代唯一可以活到百年的人。

今天这个时代
其实就是秦朝的代影，
要活得光辉，
你可以做屈原，
名留青史，英年早逝；
你可以做荆棘，
为国捐躯，万世称颂；
但我选择王剪，
我不求名，只求利，

利字当头，总好过梨子在裤头，
凭能力，凭良心赚来的利，
我用得安心，用得开心，
为了兴趣，我用了八个月，
拿着一份比任何人都低的利，
今天，一份双重的利，
交抵我的手中，
八个月的辛苦成果回来了...

三个月前，一份利诱放在我面前，
我选择报恩而放弃了，

两个月前，一份更好的利诱摆在我眼前，
我为了培养新血，
延续某个人的梦想，
而留下了...

今天，一份难以想象的利诱，
它出现了，
一份夹持着我的梦想，我的兴趣的优聘！
新血已经几乎栽培成功了，
虽然不是成功的延续，
但这次如果我不去延续我的梦想，
再傻乎乎的呆在这，
我真的会错失了...

唯一能对我目前的兴趣说的是
‘对不起，放弃你我才能迈向更远！’







看得明白吗？
故事是这样的

去年我选择了在目前这公司做工，薪水比另一间低了三百。
我是为了兴趣，为了学习而加入这个家庭。
期间，真的学习了很多东西，得到了很多快乐。

三个月前，另一间公司以提高五百基薪邀请我加入，
但那时的我觉得还未真正学习全部，不够资格胜任，
同时，一个与我疯疯癫癫过了四个月时光的同事离开了，
我被调派去负责她所有的东西，
开始时不断的碰壁让我成长不少，
学习了一切的东西。
为了报答公司的调派，我拒绝了那份工作，
专心吸收一切新任务的元素。

两个月前，出现了一份比我目前薪水高出五十巴仙的优聘，
但当时公司只剩下两三个同事操作着整个运作，
我为了报恩，选择了留下培养新血，
分担上司的重担，替自己铺好一条后路，
然而培养新血出乎意料的迟缓，
本来一个月的目标，目前需要二至三个月的时间来调教培训，
结果我还是傻傻的留下来教导了。

近来，一份几乎是我双倍薪水的工作出现了，
而且还是我一直梦想着，我一直以来想要延续的兴趣，
这次我不再选择留任了，
因为这八个月的观察，
给了我一个答案...
这公司是不会有我出头的一天！
虽然说很多东西可以自己做主了，
但试问一个做了八年的人，他还是无法更上一层楼，
一个做了三年的人，他还是停留在这个位置，
就算上面有空缺，管理层只期望从外选择，
但没考虑一班忠心恳恳，埋头苦干了大半辈子的老臣子，
难道外面的人真的比较聪明吗？
很多管理问题的出现，
其实就是这‘外国月亮比较园’所造成的，
寻找一个门外汉来管理一个庞大的机构，
这算是改革第一步吗？
问题不断出现，只因为新人新作风，
新思想无法融入与无号召力，
如何服众？如何执行？
系统是不断改变，看似不断改善，
其实是重走回以前的旧路，
敌人已经不断进步了，使用的是高薪留任，
忠心奖赏的方式让他们粗壮了，成长了。
但这里我真的看不到改变了，
一切看似改变着的，不懂是好，或是坏了...

既然眼前已经摆着一个好机会，
一个可以延续我梦想的机会，
一个可以让我考取市场管理硕士的机会，
我这次选择了不放弃，
希望我的退出他们能谅解...

希望栽培的新血可以继续延续三个为梦想付出了许多的傻人目标！

Karma Sutra Position 406#

Photo: Subin* (left) and Dayang*(right), trying out almost-impossible sexual position as their daily chores.

*Names, and Photo censored to protect their real identity

Students utilized their free time to practice the most risky and sensual sexual position from the Karma Sutra.



Enough said.

A Loser needs a direction.......

1. Hello peepa, how’s everyone getting? I hope everyone of you is doing fine. Well, due to the reason that I am really dumb and suck in decision making; therefore I need to come to you guys who are still visiting this page and gimme some suggestion/ advise.
   As you all know I’ve been torturing mentally and physically since day one when I start working in this freaking hatred XX semiconductor and till now everything remains the same. I got bullied like no body business, I argued with my supervisor (last Friday) and I just need to do plenty of extra tasks if compare with my colleague whom getting the same pay and having a same position as I do.
   
   Honestly, I feel like tendering my letter which I’ve prepared long long time ago, but I’ve no guts to do so due to the current economy conditions. Sigh. I feel like I’m learning nothing not progressing and I am just working for the sake of the $$
   
   At the first few months I thought it were I myself not used to the working life, so I asked myself to stay and fight it over. However, after months of fighting my situation still remain the same and I really fell like rising up the white flag and leave. (I am really tired)
   
   I’ve escalated my concern to the section head as I am overloaded and I did asked for department transfer, but just no one gimme a damn. I feel so scared and down every morning when I know that I’ve to go to the goddamn place to work. (Do you feel the same as I felt?)
   
   I never stop asking myself is this my own problem or just the job really not suitable for me? I am so lost and I do not know what to do. I am looking for direction but I failed. Worse come to worst is I dare not to make decision for myself any longer. Sigh. I’ve cried over and over of this work and the stresses that I do not know how to handle at all.
   
   Hence, to all my dearest friends, could you pls kindly let me know what should I do?

1. Tender(my notice of termination is 60days) and start all over again
2. work till I get a new offer
3. Tender, work for another 60days then only think of what to do.
   
   Thanks

1 day memory lost

has anyone suffering short term memory lost for one day? what i meant is that you woke up in the morning doing all the daily stuffs like usual good day but somehow after that you seemed to be forgotten about whether you had your breakfast or not?. ok, all of you must be wondering now who is the one i mentioned.

sad to say, it's my father and it happened last week. my father suffered short term memory lost for an incredible one day. he had forgotten everything like a secret agent being erased his memory for new missions. my mum told me it was serious because he seemed to forget about what he did in the last seconds, minutes and hours. i began to worry at that time considering it was so unexpected and i bet you would only see this much often in hk dramas. my conclusion was my father should be suffered from alzheimer which turned him into a lost person but i excluded this because to my knowledge it wont happen overnight just like that.

my father was in denial that he forgot many things he did that day and as time goes by, he finally realized the truth and even joked to me and said "dont know whether i really have that alzheimer disease or not"....my respond was "hahahaha, it can't be lah"..."don't worry, go see doctor and make appoinment for neurology specialist". "forget anything also nevermind, just don't forget that you still have 2sons ah"....he laughed out loud and said..."wont lah"

conversation stopped at 6:45:20pm and i was on my way back home in a bus expecting discussion with my brother later regarding this matter. the next morning i called my mum and got to know that dr.ong (not hanyoung) had made appointment for neurologist in sabah and my father was going to do some sort of MRI or brain scanning. i talked to my father and he told me that he managed to remember everything except what happened yesterday. it's weird though but the result of the MRI was positive.his brain and spinal cords are normal brushing out the possibility of alzheimer disease and minor strokes. the neurologist said it's normal for old people to have this short term memory lost and told us not to worry and some more he/she said "there is no scientific explanation regarding this yet". sounds weird but it's officially END. my father is ok now.

my friends out there, take care and stay healthy. like darren said, GOD BLESS YOU! wtf